When Breath Becomes Air Book Review
Paul Kalanithi’s When Breath Becomes Air is no simple memoir, it’s a deeply moving exploration of life, death, and the consciousness of a meaningful existence. I found myself both inspired and heartbroken as I journeyed through his reflections on the duality of being both a neurosurgeon and a patient facing terminal lung cancer. This book is a powerful reminder of the fragility of life and the concept of morality when death looms.
Kalanithi’s writing is, above all, beautiful. He has a gift for language that transcends the often sterile prose of what you’d expect of a medical professional. From the first few pages, I was captivated by his eloquence, which somehow managed to be both scientific and poetic. His words drew me into his world. One of operating rooms and family life that was presented through his blend of factual observations and intellectual wisdom. It’s rare to find a book that marries the technical aspects of medicine with such profound philosophical inquiry, but Kalanithi does this with a unique insightful romanticism.
What struck me most about When Breath Becomes Air was the sense of duality that permeates the narrative. Kalanithi was not only a doctor but also a patient; not only a scientist but also a philosopher. This is evident in the way he approaches the subject of death. As a neurosurgeon, he was often the one delivering devastating news to patients, guiding them through their final days with a blend of compassion and clinical detachment. But when he himself was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer at the age of 36, the tables were turned. Suddenly, he was the one grappling with the knowledge that his time was limited.
For me, Kalanithi’s journey from doctor to patient is what makes this book so compelling. It’s rare to get such an intimate glimpse into the mind of someone who has been on both sides of the hospital bed. His insights into the patient experience are poignant, especially his reflections on the loss of control and the surrender to vulnerability that comes with a terminal diagnosis. This honest portrayal of his struggles is both humbling and enlightening.
As a reader, I was particularly moved by the way Kalanithi grapples with the question of what makes life worth living in the face of death. This is a question most of us aren’t ever in the position to ask ourselves, but Kalanithi confronts it head-on. His love for his family, his passion for literature and neurosurgery, and his desire to leave a lasting legacy all come together to form a portrait of a man who is determined to live fully, even as his life is slipping away. There’s a passage where he reflects on the future he had envisioned—one that included his career, his wife, and the children he hoped to have. The poignancy of his unfulfilled dreams left a deep impression on me, reminding me of the unstoppable force of time and the fragility of life.
The latter part of the book, which includes a deeply moving epilogue by his wife, Lucy Kalanithi, adds another layer of emotion. Lucy’s account of Paul’s final days is raw, showing the impact of his illness not just on himself, but on those who loved him. Her words are a testament to the connection and strength that carried them both through this harrowing journey.
All considered, When Breath Becomes Air is more than a memoir—it’s a meditation on life and death that will resonate with anyone who has faced the loss of a loved one or contemplated their own mortality. Kalanithi’s story is one of courage, humility, and grace, and his words have left a lasting impact on me. It’s a book that I will return to again, not just for its beautiful writing, but for the wisdom it imparts. I highly recommend it to anyone who is searching for meaning in the midst of life’s greatest challenges.
Author
Paul Kalanithi
Publisher
Vintage (Penguin)
Publish Date
5 Jan 17
Read Time
9 Hours
Aaron Freeman
I’m a casual reader who enjoys sharing my literary journey. I aim to make my reviews relaxed, approachable and informative. With a passion for a variety of genres, I aim to offer something for every reader.